My latest Flywheel Writing Assignment: Letter Writing
Dear Mr. Lego,
I have so many things to say to you
it’s hard to know where to begin.You’ve
been putting out Legos for a long time now.You’ve gone from a tub of colorful assortment of blocks to now entire
cities with intricate tiny pieces.I’m
sure you started as a nice person just wanting to help little boys and little
girls learn how to build and use their imaginations.At what point did all of the accolades go to
your head?When did you start
thinking…you know I can make Legos that have themes for movies and Legos that
only go with each other so poor moms have to buy separate sets when a few
pieces are lost?We know you’ve made a
lot of money doing this, haven’t you? It’s obvious with your flashy “Lego” stores
and now your new “Lego Movie.”
You want us to believe that you are
family friendly kind of guy just making family friendly toys.We know the truth and we know what your plan
is.You’ve sucked in the children.We moms spend hours looking for that one
“tiny” helmet that some tiny policeman Lego can’t live without.We’ve been tired and our backs have hurt when
we’ve looked through couches and under tables to find that tiny wheel that only
goes with that one motorcycle.
You have made Lego sets for babies,
for toddlers, for girls, for boys and you’ve even sucked in our husbands.You knew that these dads would be putty in
your hands when you created Star Wars Lego sets that would take too much time
and frustration to put together.
I want you to know there will be a
day when us moms will get sick of it all and throw them all away.Yes, every itty-bitty piece.There will be crying and gnashing of teeth
but we’ll do it anyway because were fed up.We’re fed up with the pain of stepping on one of your “harmless” pieces
in the middle of the night.We’re tired
of consoling little children when something goes missing.We’re sick of it and a day is coming that
Legos will be no more.We hope you have
a back up plan for another day job and if you don’t get ready because we moms
are strong; we don’t give up easy and we’re ready to win our houses back.
During this week leading up to International Women’s Day,
here are a few heroines who are making a difference in the lives of women and
girls around the world.
Sister
Rosemary Nyirumbe from Gulu, Uganda is a gutsy, no-nonsense nun that works with
women and children who have been abducted and brutalized by the Lord’s
Resistance Army (LRA). The LRA it is a group of fighters led by a brutal
leader, Joseph Kony. They have terrorized the Great Lakes Region of
central Africa for over 20 years killing and abducting thousands of children and
displacing over 400,000 people.
Sister
Rosemary, however, is a beacon of hope and strength to hundreds of women and
children who are rehabilitated at her school, St. Monica’s Girls’ Tailoring
School. These girls, many who have become mothers, have been terrorized and
abused by Joseph Kony’s LRA now are provided a safe haven and opportunities for
a new life for the future. Sister Rosemary’s school is training them in life
skills, tailoring, and making pop-top purses that are sold with the funds going
back to the girls.
Dr. Catherine Hamlin turned 90 this year. She is a woman who
has given the vast majority of those years to the “least of these” in
Ethiopia.She has run the Hamlin Fistula Hospital for over
40 years.The hospital is working to
bring back dignity to women who have dealt with the devastating aftermath of
days spent in labor without access to basic maternal health care who are left with
an obstetric fistula.
An
obstetric fistula occurs after prolonged and agonizing obstructed labor,
forming a hole through which urine and/or feces pass uncontrollably. Women who
develop fistula are often abandoned by their husbands and rejected by their
communities. Most cases of obstructed labor result in a stillborn birth leaving
the woman with a double sorrow of the death of her baby and this devastating
condition.
Dr. Hamlin’s hospital not only treats women with fistula but
gives them a new life – sending them home in a new dress, providing services
for many of them to re-integrate back into their communities and giving them
hope for a new future.
Mamitu Geshe came
to the Hamlin Fistula Hospital in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia 1962 because her labor
had gone horribly wrong. Mamitu came from a remote Ethiopian village and
was married at the age of 14. At the age of 16, she became pregnant and
after four days of labor she eventually had a stillborn baby. Her bladder,
rectum and birth canal had all been damaged from the agonizing days in labor.
After several operations that cured her in some of her injuries she was
still left incontinent.
The founders of
the hospital, Dr. Reginald and Catherine Hamlin, saw great potential in Mamitu
and took her on as a nurse aide. She began changing bed linens and eventually
started helping out during surgeries. Mamitu was a natural leader and
soon started routinely performing the entire fistula repair surgery herself.
Now Mamitu is one of the world's most experienced fistula surgeons and
regularly trains other doctors around the world in fistula repair
surgery. Her story was featured in Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn’s
bestselling book Half the Sky.
Dr.
Inonge has led an incredibly full life.The
granddaughter of an African King, she has served as Ambassador to the U.S.,
Belgium, Netherlands, Luxemburg and the EU.She was member of the Zambian Parliament and worked with UNICEF for ten
years covering 42 African countries. In 2001, she ran for the Zambian
Presidency and later ran for the Chairwoman of the African Union Commission.She comes from a family of politicians – her
father was the first President of the African National Congress of Zambia and
her mother was the first woman in Zambia (Northern Rhodesia at the time) to
register to vote.
Upon
meeting Dr. Inonge you would never know of her long list of accomplishments or
that she is of African royal blood.Her
life has been committed to improving the lives of women and children.She’s led peace missions to Rwanda following
the genocide, Burundi and the Horn of Africa working to include women in the
peace process. She has worked tirelessly
to improve the lives of the poor and needy not only in Zambia but in many
countries on the African continent. In
Washington Life Magazine she was noted as one of Washington’s most powerful
diplomats and called the “Heroine of All African Women.”In both character, commitment to Africa and
its people, I would strongly agree that Inonge is indeed a heroine not only in
Africa but for women around the world.
Check out Sister Rosemary's Documentary Sewing Hope:
