Friday, February 14, 2014

A Rugged Road Through Childbirth

Flywheel Society: Assignment #4 Fiction

PHOTO: Joni Kabana
The rural Ethiopian countryside holds some of the most beautiful views rich with rolling hills, green acacia trees and traditional tukil huts with thatched roofs. Amara lived in the countryside and her story was full of both hope and pain.  Her name meant “unfading, eternal” and she had an unfading beauty about her.  She had brown eyes, braids in her hair, and a bright smile.  Every day, she spent hours carrying large jars of water back and forth from the well.  Her constant heavy load contributed to her petite frame. 

Amara was only 15 when it was decided for her to marry.  She knew this day was coming but it seemed to come too soon.  In so many ways she still felt like a girl and not quite ready to be a woman with the responsibilities of a wife and mother. But the decision had been made and she was to marry.  Soon after her wedding day, Amara became pregnant and she was full of anticipation to have her first baby.  When it came time to give birth, she was anxious and only had her mother and two sisters to comfort her.  Even though it was rarely talked about she knew there were dangers surrounding childbirth and she prayed, “God give me a healthy baby and that I can be strong during the delivery.” She lived way up in the mountains and a ride to the closest town was a long bus ride away.

She had labored for hours and felt like it was time to push.  It was in the middle of the night and Amara knew if something was wrong there would be no one to help until dawn.  She kept pushing and pushing but nothing was happening.  Her body felt almost numb from the pain and exhaustion.  When morning came she knew something wasn’t right and her sister ran to find someone in the village to help.  It was clear her only hope was to get down from the mountain to a small clinic.  Amara described her long grueling trip; “I finally made it to the bus which was over flowing with people.  It was hot and stuffy and I felt like I couldn’t breath.  As we made our way down the mountain, the pain became excruciating with every bounce along with rough road. The pressure was so intense and the pain almost made me black out.”  Her journey was overwhelming and felt like it would never end. 

When she finally made it to the clinic there were only two women to attend her and thankfully one was a trained birth attendant.  With sweat and tears soaking her face, she thought, “What is wrong? What is happening to me and my baby?”  When it was finally over her body exhausted from the pushing and the pain, they handed her a lifeless baby.  She looked and it was a boy.  He had a head full of dark hair and a tiny little nose.  Amara cried, “My heart was aching and I wondered if this was a curse from God?”  She was told that her body was just too small to deliver a full term baby and he had died from all the pressure from long hours of labor and pushing. 

            “What will this mean for my family…will I ever be able to have children?” Amara thought. She worried how her family and especially her husband would receive her if she couldn’t have children.  She had heard of those barren women who never bore children and she wondered if she would be one of them.  There were no immediate answers but she returned back to her village with the hope that one day there would be more babies to come. 
 
PHOTO: Joni Kabana

Ethiopia is a captivating country rich in culture and beauty yet like many developing countries, they are still lacking in essential things like access to quality health care and adequate roads to get to them.  In Ethiopia, one in five girls marry before the age of 15.  Each year, 20,000 women die in childbirth and 77 babies out of 1,000 live births don’t survive.  In addition, only 6% of women give birth with a skilled health professional.  Giving birth can be a frightening experience for any woman but in a country with very few health care centers and even scarcer doctors to go around the hope for an easy delivery becomes more of desperation than just a wish. 

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